I am a 40yr old divorcee who has been struggling for the past 3 years to free my repressed soul and personality. I have come a very long way, but only recently came to the realization that I cannot complete my journey without learning to be comfortable with my own. It is something a man I dated told me a long time ago, but I wasn't ready to understand or even consider the subject at the time.
I thought a lot about the subject, examined my inhibitions and experiences. As this was happening, I connected with a man via myspace.com, using yahoo messenger. He was very outgoing and direct regarding the subject of and masturbation. At first, I was taken aback but steeled myself to press on, answer his questions in support of my quest for enlightenment, as a means to begin practicing my theory. I was truthful and honest, and then I began to take charge of the conversations with direct questions of my own.
In one session, TL asked about my and I thought it was clitoris. He explained more about it and I decided to research the subject. I did a google search and your article was the first thing I read.
As my acceptance of my own and desires began to grow, I imagined how I would handle my next dating experience, what I wanted. The union of body, mind and soul, the complete intimacy that Aspen and Sam shared is EXACTLY how I imagined it.
I wrote, refined and finally posted a Match.com profile, trying to be explicit as I could about what I am looking for. I have been chatting via IM or on the phone with a man this week, and we will be meeting tonight for the first time. He will be the first man to meet the new me and I am looking forward to the experience of getting to know him on my terms. It is up to me to set the expectations about who I am, and I am excited about painting a new picture of myself the world has never seen. I sincerely hope that we connect as much in person, so it will continue toward physical intimacy...something I do not intend to rush, but to savor each moment between now and then.
This is the first time I will be meeting a man with as one of my goals. Someone once told me that men trade love for and women trade for love, and I think that is exactly what is wrong with today's relationships. If either party approaches a relationship in that manner, eventually it is going to fail. Everyone wants. Most women do not admit that to themselves or anyone else, and look down on men because they do. So people start straying from who they are to become what they believe the other is looking for...so they can get to the part.
So again, I want to thank you for posting that story. It has truly lifted me and confirmed that I have finally found the right road.
Update after asking permission to share her story:
I would be very honored for you to include my words.
Update...My date went very well last night. There is attraction on all levels, and I am looking forward to our next meeting. Anticipating
"the right moment" for my "Exporation in Intimacy". I think I will keep a journal and perhaps write an article somewhere down the line.
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I thought a lot about the subject, examined my inhibitions and experiences. As this was happening, I connected with a man via myspace.com, using yahoo messenger. He was very outgoing and direct regarding the subject of and masturbation. At first, I was taken aback but steeled myself to press on, answer his questions in support of my quest for enlightenment, as a means to begin practicing my theory. I was truthful and honest, and then I began to take charge of the conversations with direct questions of my own.
In one session, TL asked about my and I thought it was clitoris. He explained more about it and I decided to research the subject. I did a google search and your article was the first thing I read.
As my acceptance of my own and desires began to grow, I imagined how I would handle my next dating experience, what I wanted. The union of body, mind and soul, the complete intimacy that Aspen and Sam shared is EXACTLY how I imagined it.
I wrote, refined and finally posted a Match.com profile, trying to be explicit as I could about what I am looking for. I have been chatting via IM or on the phone with a man this week, and we will be meeting tonight for the first time. He will be the first man to meet the new me and I am looking forward to the experience of getting to know him on my terms. It is up to me to set the expectations about who I am, and I am excited about painting a new picture of myself the world has never seen. I sincerely hope that we connect as much in person, so it will continue toward physical intimacy...something I do not intend to rush, but to savor each moment between now and then.
This is the first time I will be meeting a man with as one of my goals. Someone once told me that men trade love for and women trade for love, and I think that is exactly what is wrong with today's relationships. If either party approaches a relationship in that manner, eventually it is going to fail. Everyone wants. Most women do not admit that to themselves or anyone else, and look down on men because they do. So people start straying from who they are to become what they believe the other is looking for...so they can get to the part.So again, I want to thank you for posting that story. It has truly lifted me and confirmed that I have finally found the right road.
Update after asking permission to share her story:
I would be very honored for you to include my words.
Update...My date went very well last night. There is attraction on all levels, and I am looking forward to our next meeting. Anticipating
"the right moment" for my "Exporation in Intimacy". I think I will keep a journal and perhaps write an article somewhere down the line.
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